Well... I'm also a professional. So people have an easier time with the conversational aspect sometimes. Sex workers, hairstylists, and bartenders are therapists for people who don't go to therapy.

[Oh this guy is too cute.] Gay slang for guys who are young, thin, pretty hairless. Like I'm a twink.

Oh, yeah. If.

Okay, well, Jesus. At nineteen some countries won't even let you drink so how the hell can you be expected to suss out the motivations of the military industrial complex? At nineteen I didn't know how to make Mac and cheese, nevermind figure out if the Marines aligned with my values or whatever.